*** This post is dedicated to my sisterette, whose heart was recently broken by the person she loved the most. Girl, be strong.. God has better plans for you ***
We’ve been chatting for several weeks now about your heart-ache, depression, fears, suicidal thoughts. I already told you many times to try to be strong… that "soon everything will be alright". I realized that no words can ease the pain you are feeling right now. I’ve been in similar situations several times already and I know how much it sucks! I feel for you sis.
There are times that you think it’s the end of the world… wake up girl! It’s not! You still have a great future ahead of you. Since he left you, you thought life won’t be the same again… that you are no longer complete. You are still complete. He complements you but he’s not the one who completes you. Now that he’s gone, life ain’t worth living. Girl, you need to stay alive to appreciate how beautiful life is.
We may not actually feel your pain… but we understand you. It’s okay to be sad… it’s okay to be depressed. But you should learn to pick up the pieces and move on. I know you’re afraid… you lost your trust in everything. But Trust the Lord and one day when you wake up, you won’t feel the pain anymore. Let him heal your wounds. (I don’t go to church..but I believe in him) Take your time sis… soon you will be healed. Then, you’ll become stronger and wiser. A friend of mine during the most difficult time of my life taught me this –> "This too, shall pass"
Sisterette, I hope the following quotes could somehow make you feel better. (I got it from http://en.thinkexist.com/)
QUOTATION: Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.
BIOGRAPHY: American writer and cartoonist best known for his collection of children’s books. 1904-1991
QUOTATION: Tell your heart that the fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself. And no heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dream.
BIOGRAPHY: Mystical author, one of Brazil’s most successful novelist
QUOTATION: To love is to risk not being loved in return. To hope is to risk pain. To try is to risk failure, but risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.
QUOTATION: Sometimes you have to let go to see if there was anything worth holding on to.
QUOTATION: Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward.
QUOTATION: You don’t need strength to let go of something. What you really need is understanding.
QUOTATION: There are things that we never want to let go of, people we never want to leave behind. But keep in mind that letting go isn’t the end of the world, it’s the beginning of a new life.
QUOTATION: If you ever drop your keys into a river of molten lava, let ‘em go, because man, they’re gone.
BIOGRAPHY: American writer and cast member of Saturday Night Live from 1991-2003. Famous for his Deep Thoughts comedy sketches
QUOTATION: Letting go doesn’t mean giving up, but rather accepting that there are things that cannot be.