Leia Learns to Blog

Weird.

I always find myself in the middle of a break-up. Not that I’m the 3rd party or the cause of break-up. It’s just that I’m friends with most of the ‘couples’… If a close friend’s bf/gf also becomes my friend (whether I like it or not, right carl? peace bro!) If they are having problems, I’d listen and try to help them patch things up. Why? because I’m online! That’s the power of ym — connecting people.

This made me wonder… when the relationship ends, does the friendship also ends? Can I still be friends with both of them? Is it morally correct that I meddle with their issue?

Caught in the Middle Scenarios
Scene # 1
When I was in 3rd yr hs, a boy classmate of mine was in a middle of a break-up situation (inside our classroom) when I nonchalantly entered the scene just to get my stuffs.

I’m such a party-pooper.

Scene # 2
A close girl-friend of mine had troubles with his bf who’s also a friend of mine. I would be their shoulder to cry on. The guy wants out… but the girl wants ‘in’. The guy asks to convince her to let him go… while the girl asks to convince him to take her back. Eventually, they got back together… and we haven’t talk.

Why? Was I the jinx?

Scene #3
A bestfriend of mine got involved with a girl whom I don’t approved. Since I am a loyal friend, I be-friended the girl. Then things get ugly… ‘there was scandal everywhere’. They broke up. And I found myself in the middle of the post-break-up scene. The mom ‘questioned’ me, why I let my friend got involved with such a girl.

Tsk..tsk..tsk.. so much for being ms. friendship!

<to be continued..>

Shit happens, but I’m still your friend.

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